Organized Caregiving

By: Parlay International

As with any job" caring for someone else will involve all of the management skills that you can muster. Depending on the elder’s needs you will be managing a variety of things—from medication dosage to bathing to providing transportation.

Being organized will help you stay on top of performing or delegating these tasks. Organization will help you to provide the best care possible. Here are some tips for managing the day-to-day tasks of caregiving:

Write Things Down

Keep a small notebook where you can write important information or ideas as they come up. These can be to-do lists phone numbers medication names—anything important that you need to record. Then you will always know where to look first when you need to remember something.

Use a Calendar

Keep a calendar on your desk or by your phone for recording dates appointments and tasks to do on specific days.

Organize Paperwork

You may be surprised to find how much caregiving involves paperwork. Brochures from nursing homes copies of wills electric bills store receipts medication inserts; the paperwork can easily overwhelm you if you allow it to pile up. Take control. Devise a system (a file cabinet a box or shelves) where you can label and file the paperwork for future reference.

Look for Help

Getting others to help—delegating tasks to other relatives for instance—is a great way to get things done. Just as managers use their staff wisely to get work done you too can use managerial skills to make sure that all tasks are completed. There are tasks that others can quickly and easily accomplish and there are some tasks that other people may actually enjoy or fulfill better.

Don’t Be Afraid to Say “No”

As tasks chores and needs escalate you may find yourself agreeing to things that are beyond your capabilities or desires. For your sake—and that of the elder—keep in mind that you don’t have to do everything. Determine the necessity of any given task. If it isn’t necessary you may want to let it go for a while. If it is necessary but beyond your means look to others to fill in the gaps.

Set Rules and Responsibilities

If you are living with your elder or even if you aren’t it is helpful to set rules and responsibilities for both of you. Consider assigning chores— even small ones—to your care recipient to give him or her a sense of responsibility. Establish what you will do and what you won’t. These kinds of rules will make the daily life of everyone involved more harmonious

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